(Giggling to myself. I just love the title.)
I just had to share this wonderful book by Lori Bryant-Woolridge called, "Weapons of Mass Seduction". It's been sitting on my desk for a while but time just has not allowed for much recreational reading. But since it was raining and cold - and I couldn't do what I would normally want to do on a day like this - a book (preferably a romance) is usually an adequate second choice.
Who knew I was going to be taking a partial course in sensual living?!?!?!?!
AND I loved it. I think as a woman gets older she gets a better understanding of her own sexiness but sometimes forgets how to use it. Especially if she has been through a bad break up or difficult relationship and just wants to shove the drama to the side ...... aka be by her damn self. It's so easy to shove that part of yourself to the side and get caught up in the day to day.
So it was refreshing to get some tips on how to continue to grow in your sexiness and embrace your sensual side - not just during intimacy with a man but everyday for no other reason than it makes you feel good. I also appreciate the fact that Lori stresses that your physical attributes are not the only thing that makes a person sexy. More than anything, it's being comfortable in your own skin.
I love it.
SO if you're ready to further explore your sensuality, swing by Lori's blog and get some tools to how to bring your sexy back!
And then unleash your weapons of mass seduction!
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Thursday, November 1, 2007
RoAd TriPpIn'
And trippin' we were ......
Consider this: Close to three thousand miles, more than 5 states, at least three days of steady rain - and two women on the edge. It's lucky we made it back home alive.
But we did pick up the dubious title of Thelma and Louise (Thanks V!) midway through so that should give you some idea of the level of madness that was achieved during our stint. Most of which both will take to our graves.
It was actually a business trip - Tonya is an author and we were on an East Coast book tour. She doing the actual signing and I doing whatever in the hell she told me to do. That's the kind of relationship we have.
Never mind that we were scheduled for several outdoor book signings and it rained for more than three days straight.
We made the best of it and learned some important lessons along the way.
Number one and most important - There are different levels of "Gettin' your hustle on". And thanks to the DC Bookman and his lovely better half - Tiah, Tonya and I sprinted through all levels of hustledom in one afternoon. I will break these down in a later blog!
Number two - Harlem (and New York in general) is not for the faint-hearted. Especially when you're trying to sell a book or cross the street while looking like a tourist (see pic below). But once again, we were saved - enter Lester from the Harlem Book Center who not only took a considerable amount of books off our hands but saved us from being a permanent bumper sticker and taught us how to safely cross the street in the big apple. If you're like us and think the big red "do not walk" sign actually means something - think again before you go to NY.
Number three lesson - you always want someone in your corner who tells you the truth (straight, no chaser) but tempers it with love. There's nothing like six days in the car with your girl to learn about all the B.S. in YOUR life. :)
And number four - the new Keyshia Cole album is DA TRUTH. If you haven't listened to it yet - I would recommend that you do. Best part is Anthony Hamilton's verse on Losing You.
Whooooo wee! Now that's what I'm talking about.
But then maybe I'm still TriPpin'!
Consider this: Close to three thousand miles, more than 5 states, at least three days of steady rain - and two women on the edge. It's lucky we made it back home alive.
But we did pick up the dubious title of Thelma and Louise (Thanks V!) midway through so that should give you some idea of the level of madness that was achieved during our stint. Most of which both will take to our graves.
It was actually a business trip - Tonya is an author and we were on an East Coast book tour. She doing the actual signing and I doing whatever in the hell she told me to do. That's the kind of relationship we have.
Never mind that we were scheduled for several outdoor book signings and it rained for more than three days straight.
We made the best of it and learned some important lessons along the way.
Number one and most important - There are different levels of "Gettin' your hustle on". And thanks to the DC Bookman and his lovely better half - Tiah, Tonya and I sprinted through all levels of hustledom in one afternoon. I will break these down in a later blog!
Number two - Harlem (and New York in general) is not for the faint-hearted. Especially when you're trying to sell a book or cross the street while looking like a tourist (see pic below). But once again, we were saved - enter Lester from the Harlem Book Center who not only took a considerable amount of books off our hands but saved us from being a permanent bumper sticker and taught us how to safely cross the street in the big apple. If you're like us and think the big red "do not walk" sign actually means something - think again before you go to NY.
Number three lesson - you always want someone in your corner who tells you the truth (straight, no chaser) but tempers it with love. There's nothing like six days in the car with your girl to learn about all the B.S. in YOUR life. :)
And number four - the new Keyshia Cole album is DA TRUTH. If you haven't listened to it yet - I would recommend that you do. Best part is Anthony Hamilton's verse on Losing You.
Baby, I know what you've been through.
So I'm here to relieve you.
Remind you.
Renew you.
Rebuild you.
Girl, I'll do whatever it takes just to reshape what he messed up.
Cuz real love needs real love.
And I'm here love cuz I need you.
Whooooo wee! Now that's what I'm talking about.
But then maybe I'm still TriPpin'!
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
A MILLION WOMEN STRONG CO-FOUNDERS FORM NEW COMPANY DESIGNED TO TELL THE STORIES OF WOMEN!
DETROIT, Mich.- The co-founders of A Million Women Strong have announced the creation of a new company – Independent Xpression – created to provide quality publishing services to writers and give a voice to the stories of women. Independent Xpression is a subsidiary company of Infinite Xpression – an established publishing company.
“There are a plethora of self publishing opportunities in the publishing arena. An author should research those opportunities and make wise choices. Every self publishing opportunity is not beneficial to an author. Independent Xpression gives the author a fighting chance at being successful in fulfilling their dream,” says AMWS co-founder, publisher and author, Tonya Shirelle.
Independent Xpression will serve as the catalyst for your editorial, production, marketing and distribution capabilities to complete your book project. Although recognizing that each project will have its own needs, the services Independent Xpression provides are designed to meet the general needs in order to get your book to print.
“Every woman is powerful in her own way, but together, a million women can overcome nearly any obstacle,” said Nikki Woods, organization co-founder, author and publisher. “And every woman has a unique voice with a story to tell. The marriage between AMWS and Independent Xpression is the perfect way to showcase the strength and inspiration of women.”
By providing the support and infrastructure necessary to accomplish the goal of getting your book to print, Independent Xpression helps aspiring authors fulfill their dream of being published with the assistance of a proven publisher.
About Infinite Xpression Publishing
Infinite Xpression Publishing is a dynamic provider of quality literary works from traditionally underserved authors across the country. The company strives to provide a proactive voice for aspiring and established authors. Infinite Xpression is committed to developing the social, intellectual and creative minds of its authors and readers. To find out more about the publishing services offered by Independent Xpression or Infinite Xpression Publishing, visit the company’s website at www.ixpublishing.com.
About A Million Women Strong
A Million Women Strong is an organization designed to inform, empower, and connect women across the globe. This organization will encompass the key components needed to equip women to being the best that they can be in the new millennium by addressing real issues and providing real solutions. Send an email with your contact information to amillionwomenstrong@gmail.com and become part of a movement … A Million Women Strong!
“There are a plethora of self publishing opportunities in the publishing arena. An author should research those opportunities and make wise choices. Every self publishing opportunity is not beneficial to an author. Independent Xpression gives the author a fighting chance at being successful in fulfilling their dream,” says AMWS co-founder, publisher and author, Tonya Shirelle.
Independent Xpression will serve as the catalyst for your editorial, production, marketing and distribution capabilities to complete your book project. Although recognizing that each project will have its own needs, the services Independent Xpression provides are designed to meet the general needs in order to get your book to print.
“Every woman is powerful in her own way, but together, a million women can overcome nearly any obstacle,” said Nikki Woods, organization co-founder, author and publisher. “And every woman has a unique voice with a story to tell. The marriage between AMWS and Independent Xpression is the perfect way to showcase the strength and inspiration of women.”
By providing the support and infrastructure necessary to accomplish the goal of getting your book to print, Independent Xpression helps aspiring authors fulfill their dream of being published with the assistance of a proven publisher.
About Infinite Xpression Publishing
Infinite Xpression Publishing is a dynamic provider of quality literary works from traditionally underserved authors across the country. The company strives to provide a proactive voice for aspiring and established authors. Infinite Xpression is committed to developing the social, intellectual and creative minds of its authors and readers. To find out more about the publishing services offered by Independent Xpression or Infinite Xpression Publishing, visit the company’s website at www.ixpublishing.com.
About A Million Women Strong
A Million Women Strong is an organization designed to inform, empower, and connect women across the globe. This organization will encompass the key components needed to equip women to being the best that they can be in the new millennium by addressing real issues and providing real solutions. Send an email with your contact information to amillionwomenstrong@gmail.com and become part of a movement … A Million Women Strong!
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
The Original Video Vixen?!?!?!?!?!
I was just talking about this YESTERDAY! I did an interview with a magazine recently and this is one of the questions that was asked.
Mike TRIBE!: It's not an easy thing being in the media is it?
Nikki Woods: No, it's not but I know it's what God has called me to do.
Nikki Woods: Young girls need to see women who really care about them and want the best for them.
Nikki Woods: Women who are strong and beautiful and don't need to shake their butt to get ahead in life.
So it was more than a little interesting that I should get an email today containing this documentary about a woman named Sara Bartman. The content speaks for itself but I have to say as I sat and watched it - I started crying. It hurts to see women being exploited so visciously centuries ago but it hurts moreso today because a lot of it is by choice. Sure we can get political and say that some make the choice because they feel they have no choice but when are we (and I'm talking to the Ladies) going to stand up and reclaim our power. It's the main reason why Tonya and I started the organization A Million Women Strong. We want to empower women to do what they really want in life - not what they feel they have to just to survive. We are in the trenches. We are ready and willing to do what it takes to make a difference. Are u?
Mike TRIBE!: It's not an easy thing being in the media is it?
Nikki Woods: No, it's not but I know it's what God has called me to do.
Nikki Woods: Young girls need to see women who really care about them and want the best for them.
Nikki Woods: Women who are strong and beautiful and don't need to shake their butt to get ahead in life.
So it was more than a little interesting that I should get an email today containing this documentary about a woman named Sara Bartman. The content speaks for itself but I have to say as I sat and watched it - I started crying. It hurts to see women being exploited so visciously centuries ago but it hurts moreso today because a lot of it is by choice. Sure we can get political and say that some make the choice because they feel they have no choice but when are we (and I'm talking to the Ladies) going to stand up and reclaim our power. It's the main reason why Tonya and I started the organization A Million Women Strong. We want to empower women to do what they really want in life - not what they feel they have to just to survive. We are in the trenches. We are ready and willing to do what it takes to make a difference. Are u?
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Quote and Thought for the Day
I stumbled across a quote from Maya Angelou that said, "If one is lucky, a solitary fantasy can totally transform one million realities." My heart jumped in my throat and I immediately called my partner in crime - Tonya Shirelle and excitedly read the quote to her. It perfectly summed up what we see as our mission in life. We both wanted to create a network that would allow women to embrace themselves and each other; a safe haven to network, vent and support one another thus A MILLION WOMEN STRONG. Our individual dreams merged into one solitary fantasy that we know will touch one million lives. It is no longer a hope but a realized goal just waiting to be manifested.
Today I ask you - what is your solitary fantasy?
Today I ask you - what is your solitary fantasy?
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Join Me in Baltimore and Harlem!
I love to write, it's very therapeutic for me. But, as an author there is a lot more to writing to be successful. The promoting aspect of this business is certainly a task! I cannot complain because I have had phenomenal success. Just to be honest with you the entire process of sitting at a table watching people come in looking specifically for me is surreal.
Well, I just want to drop a line and let you all know where I will be this weekend. If you are in the area drop by and see me. If you have family and friends in the area send them to see me, and of course purchase the book. Thank you for your continued support or me and my debut novel Circumstances. It means a lot!!
September 28th from 4-6 pm
Urban Knowledge Bookstore
2301 Liberty Heights Avenue
Baltimore, MD 21215
September 29th and 30th - all day
125th St. Vendor Area
125th Street
Harlem, NY
For more information on me and my book Circumstances, log onto the website!
Friday, September 21, 2007
A Million Women Strong SPOTLIGHT
GET INSPIRED!
Shattering HIV Stereotypes
Meet Cherrell Edwards. When she started feeling ill four years ago, at age 18, doctors told her she was OK. But Edwards still felt that something was seriously wrong with her health — and she was right. "In 2003, I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of three years, even though we had safe sex more often than not," says Edwards. "Soon after, I began to get migraines that were keeping me from functioning at school and work, so I went to the emergency room and was admitted." Though she was tested for HIV at the time, the results came back negative, and Edwards was diagnosed instead with gonorrhea. Things went even more wrong after that. "They started treating me for a lot of different things that I didn't have," like hepatitis and pelvic inflammatory disease. A few months later, with her health still suffering, Edwards broke up with her boyfriend and concentrated on trying to take care of herself by staying spiritually grounded, physically fit and maintaining a healthy diet — all while trying to figure out what was causing her physical issues. In February 2004, a little Internet sleuthing inspired Edwards to get retested for HIV. "The entire time I was sick, I was looking online, trying to figure out what the cause was," she says. "I had symptoms of the disease — the swollen lymph nodes, the pain, the diarrhea — so I went back to be tested again." After the results from the second test came back positive, the teen joined a support group of other HIV positive women. "It was a great place, but a few months later, the agency folded, and that's when I began to take the initiative to start another support group for women with HIV."
Read the entire story!
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